I usually make a “to do” and a “not to do” list. The first list is homework assignments, phone calls, errands to run. The second list is things like “don’t nap in the middle of the day” and “don’t waste time on the Chive”.
Today I did everything from one list, and nothing from the other. I’m tired, my couch is the most comfortable spot in the house, and I made the mistake of trading my jeans for my comfy pjs.
I woke up from the nap because I got cold, not because I was ready for it to be over. Even now, I don’t have any witty things to say, don’t have enough energy to work on my book report, and don’t even have the energy to surf the internet. I can’t afford to take the day off of school work, so I am going to try and muster some words and get at least a little bit of work done.
I will be happy when this week is over. I am not getting out of bed before 10 on Saturday….I don’t care what the boy says.
Not the tired of going to bed too late and getting up too early. Not the tired of a good long workout, or the completion of a paper. No, this is the bone deep, weary tired of having too many balls in the air at one time. It is the tired of someone who has every second of the day scheduled. I’m juggling two jobs (one of which I really like, and one that pays my bills), school, homework, and a paltry attempt at a social life. I’m not doing very well at any of. I’m distracted at work, distracted in class, and haven’t put in nearly enough effort into my homework or relationships. I have a student loan to sort out, and have yet to pay my tuition or register for next semester. I still do not have insurance. Lately the only thing that I am doing well is sleeping and putting off work.
The end of the semester cannot come soon enough. I have one final separating me from the completion of my first semester of the doctoral program. I’m not sure if I have learned a lot, and the final next week will certainly answer that question, but I am happy to be standing near the finish line.
I did not do nearly enough writing while I was in Scotland, and have yet to do any since I have been home. The trip was a good recharge, but coming home and then jumping right back in to school and work has left me with a cold (well, that could have come from the boy, who has been sick for a couple of weeks). The boy told me that I tend to be fatalistic about my disease, and while I don’t agree, he asked me what would happen if I spent one day not thinking about how tired I was, or how much pain I was in. In theory, that would be great. I would love it if I could find a way to shut off that part of my brain. I have decided that I will try that while I am tied up in study groups this weekend preparing for the final.
Today though, I am just going to take some meds, go to bed early, and hope that I wake up tomorrow a little less tired.